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City guide · New York · 5 min read

How to make friends in New York as a newcomer or visitor

New York has eight million people and a reputation for loneliness. The fix is the same as anywhere: repeated places and shared activities.

Top 3 things to do — and how to turn them into plans

  1. 1

    Walk the Brooklyn Bridge at golden hour

    Free, iconic and ends in DUMBO's pizza and parks. On Sidecar, you can post exactly this as a plan — or join someone else's.

  2. 2

    Free museum evenings

    MoMA, the Whitney and others have free or pay-what-you-wish hours. On Sidecar, you can post exactly this as a plan — or join someone else's.

  3. 3

    Picnic in Central Park

    Sheep Meadow on a weekend is the city's shared lawn. On Sidecar, you can post exactly this as a plan — or join someone else's.

Sidecar is for locals meeting locals, travellers meeting locals, and fellow travellers meeting each other. Friends only.

Pick a neighbourhood rhythm

A regular café, a trivia night, a Saturday walk across a bridge — New York friendships are built on repetition.

Use the free city

Free museum hours, park concerts, public lectures and just walking a new neighbourhood together are all easy plans.

Follow your interests

Run clubs, board-game bars, comedy open mics and every conceivable hobby group exist here — often several.

Find your people on Sidecar

Sidecar shows small, platonic plans in New York in time order, each with a host introduction and a public meeting place. Join one, or post your own.